Irrespective, read my post once more, combined with the other links we posted, and let me know what about this is misogynistic. (FTR, it must get without stating that critique of females, in and of itself, just isn’t similar to misogyny).
Into staying in the relationship, my actual happiness be damned– while expecting all the value that was traditionally expected of men– plus more– from me) as I said above: I’ve had plenty of nice dates over the last 20 years with a wide range of otherwise normal women who are decent human beings, and then from all walks of life– bartenders and factory line workers, all the way up to women with masters degrees and doctors (who, FTR, made way more money than I do, and it was never a concern in my eyes), and all of varying physical proportions/attractiveness– short, tall, some slightly overweight, some rail-thin, some flat chested with no hips, some super curvy, some with model-quality facial features, some not so much, etc. )… however, they all wound up being bad relationship material for the reasons I listed above (usually the housepet or overgrown child categories– they expected their default existence in my life or half-assed efforts that I had to “command”/ask/request/beg of them to be all that’s required– basically they only wanted to do enough to placate me.
Demonstrably i have to never be all that “misogynistic” if I’ve put sufficient effort into my previous relationships with me, marry me, have kids with me, and they even did the large majority of initiating sexually (regardless of whether I rejected them or not), etc that they progressed to the point on more than one occasion they wanted to spend their life. Unfortuitously, like the majority of other “modern” ladies, they were either incapable because of incompetence, or just declined to exhibit shared respect through actual proactive work, therefore I broke down my dedication to them (from time to time after several years of persistence using them)… simply speaking, they desired us to let them have young ones, and also to get me personally being a spouse, and gain most of what that entails (supply of most areas of safety– emotional, real, and monetary; please them as a enthusiast; cause them to become feel truly special and appreciated, etc. ), nonetheless they didn’t wish to have to your workplace also to a small degree at being fully a spouse, going back those exact same sentiments in a feminine method as a matter of mutual respect inturn (on occasion also fighting tooth-and-nail to justify why they need ton’t have to).
Exactly exactly How exactly can it be misogyny to anticipate more work than compared to platonic friendship (or for that matter, just her basic standard existence) from a female when that woman
seems compelled to inform a person she really loves him?
Having said that, it is frequently said that this is of insanity would be to keep doing the thing that is same and over while anticipating different results… if pursuing women we appear to get on okay with just ever leads to unfulfilling, one-sided relationships EVEN ONCE THEY EXPRESS WHICH THEY LIKE ME AND DESIRE TO DEVELOP A HOUSEHOLD BESIDE ME, we ask once more, what’s the idea of pursuing females?
Now give consideration to that the typical ladies behind those doorways probably will at most useful provide only her standard presence in the life if he opens sufficient doors to locate to locate her, that will include more hardship to their life without incorporating any compensating advantage, and can bring about a net-loss overall… what’s the point of fighting dozens of tigers for the net-loss in standard of living?
Finally, think about this: If there are plenty great males out there who aren’t as with any us so named “red tablet misogynists”, exactly why are there a lot of articles where women can be railing on how they can’t find worthwhile guys, and all sorts of the complaints about males being interested in porn and video gaming than genuine females? Possibly the question you ought to be asking is the reason why are porn and video games OUT-PERFORMING WOMEN for grown-men’s attention?
Could it perhaps, simply possibly, be because females stopped providing old-fashioned value as relationship lovers for males while really anticipating significantly more than conventional value from guys? Simply having a reliable task that will offer and keep maintaining the “structural” integrity of the modest house whilst having decent individual character was once enough… now males are anticipated to also undertake a substantial part of keeping the surroundings inside the house which was typically included in ladies, while additionally being anticipated to supplying endless excitement to “keep her interested” emotionally, be the entire variety of principal to intimate lover that understands every small nuance of feminine sex, and constantly be including more and much more to their life to improve just exactly what he provides a female in social status–basically unchecked Briffault’s law– to the level 90%+ for the guys on the market will inevitably break.

